3 Lessons I Learned on How to Have an Unforgettable Wedding

I imagined having a romantic sunset beach wedding in Florida. I thought of Las Vegas — Just the Two of Us package. I googled the best wedding ideas in New York. Finally, I found a web page that showed photos of couples getting married in New York Central Park. One particular image caught my attention — a bridge that gracefully swoops over a beautiful lake. I closed my eyes and pictured my groom kissing me on that bridge, and my heart skipped a beat.

Lesson 1: Create a realistic vision

The internet is full of wedding ideas. Do you want to wed in Hawaii, Las Vegas or the Bahamas? Do you have the resources to make it possible? Does your vision make you and your partner happy?




Abraham and I met 23 years ago. Young and clueless, we made mistakes. We broke each other’s heart and went our separate ways. A few years ago, we found each other again and rekindled the fire. Now, we are ready to face life together — to start a new beginning.


Lesson 2: Relish the moment

This is it! After all the challenges in your relationship, you are finally getting married. Look at your groom, listen to his words, feel his touch as he puts that ring on your finger. Your attention will get pulled in different directions, and you might miss the big moments. Forget about the minor details and focus.


Wedding Dance at Bethesda Terrace


Music was playing at the arcade. A tourist guide was talking on top of his voice. Just a few steps away, a newlywed couple was also having a photo shoot. Little kids were running up and down the stairs. Our photographer was moving around trying to get the best shot. In the midst of it all, my husband and I kept on dancing.


Lesson 3: Don’t fret when things are not perfect.

Some situations are beyond your control. Be flexible and have fun. Unexpected moments will make your wedding day memorable.


Moments at Tavern on the Green


I may not have the perfect wedding. No ceremony musicians. No lavish reception. No horse-drawn carriage or limo. But, I have no regrets.

I dreamt of kissing my groom on the Bow Bridge, and it came true.

My eyes welled up with tears as I listened to his vows.

We danced at the Bethesda Terrace — like nobody was watching!

It was unforgettable.


Central Park NY Wedding

Photography: Jose Tan

I know there’s still a lot of challenges ahead of us and I’m praying God will give us strength and wisdom to continue our journey.

Have a great day everyone. Thank you so much for reading!

40 responses to “3 Lessons I Learned on How to Have an Unforgettable Wedding”

  1. Happy anniversary. I am happy you found each other again, and glad you have found your muse and your voice. I have missed this poetic flow of words from you. It has been so long… and now… you and your husband’s beautiful journey has begun. Remember, love is beautiful the second time around. Love ya! Come visit me and my family soon!

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    • Thanks sis for the very encouraging words. I’m so happy I’m writing again — love inspired me to revisit my creative side. You’re right, I found my muse. Anyway, we would love to visit you someday. Miss and love ya!


  2. This was Absolutely Beautiful Fritzie! I wish you both many, many years of happiness , Love and health. May you endure any obstacles of life together. Happy Anniversary!!🥂

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  3. Such a beautiful memory, I’m so happy I became part of your life that day. To many more unforgettable events in you and Pato’s life together, cheers my friend 🥂. Happy Anniversary!

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  4. Congratulations!

    Father, I pray for Abraham and Fritzie. May you walk with, and talk with them along the way. Bless their marriage, bless their heart; bind them together with love and oneness. In the name of Jesus; Amen!

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